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June 30, 2008

Protect Yourself from Identity Theft

Filed under: Uncategorized — tomcatf14986 @ 9:27 pm

It’s happened to me. About a year ago, someone got a hold of my bank card numbers. Fortunately, the crook made some international purchase which immediately clued me in and my bank was quick to settle the whole thing. But most people aren’t so lucky. Identity theft is a serious crime that’s growing each year. Victims of identity theft can spend months, or even years, trying to repair a ruined credit history, which can compromise your chances of getting a new job, a bank loan, insurance or even rental housing. Follow these steps to help keep your identity safe:

Protect Your Credit Card Number When Making Purchases

Check your receipts after making a purchase with your credit or debit card. In most cases, the printed receipt hides all but the last 4 digits of your credit card account number, but some terminals still print receipts that show all 16 digits of your account number and the expiration date. If you get one of these receipts, black out the numbers entirely before throwing it away - this is all the information a thief needs to make charges using your card. You’re also permitted by law to hide the first 12 digits of your account number on any copies of the receipt that the seller keeps.

It’s especially important to keep tabs on your receipts at restaurants. Think about it - you pay for your meal and then leave the signed receipt on your table for the waiter to pick up. But in a busy restaurant, it’s easy for a potential thief to “accidentally” bump your receipt off the table (or just steal it) and get your information. If the restaurant’s receipt shows all of your account information, black out the first 12 digits of your credit card number before leaving the restaurant.

Do You Really Need To Give Your Social Security Number?

Be very stringent about who you give your social security number to. You’ll probably need to share your number when you apply for credit or for a bank account, but sometimes a store or an organization will want to use it as an ID number, simply to identify you within their system. This is not only dangerous - it’s illegal. The law says that social security numbers aren’t to be used as ID numbers. If you’re ever unsure about giving out your social security number, ask if there’s an alternative - there is in most cases.

Destroy Documents That Contain Sensitive Personal Information

Buy a paper shredder and use it to destroy any documents that contain credit card numbers, social security numbers, phone numbers, your date of birth and any other personal information before throwing them away. Any credit card offers should also be shredded - thieves can fill out the applications and open a line of credit without you ever knowing. Don’t think that throwing out these documents is enough - identity thieves aren’t above going through the trash to find information that can help them get credit in your name.

If The Worst Happens

If you do become a victim of identity theft, take the following steps immediately:

* Contact your credit card companies to let them know what’s going on, close your accounts and ask to have new cards issued to you.

* Place a fraud alert on your file with any one of the three major credit bureaus. The other two will be notified automatically.

* File a police report. You may need it to show to creditors as proof of the crime.

* File a complaint with the FTC, which maintains a database of identity theft cases used by law enforcement agencies for their investigations.

It’s not fun to think about identity theft, but in this age of technology, you can’t afford not to. Identity thieves get smarter every day - just think of the recent rash of companies announcing that their client databases have been hacked into, exposing personal information. Some things are out of your control, but there are some simple precautions you can take to keep your personal information secured. Keeping your identity safe may be one of the most important things you do for your financial future.

This article was published by Sarah Russell on Smart Young Money - a collection of money management resources for teens and young adults. For great information on using credit, managing debt and more for young people, visit www.smartyoungmoney.com http://www.smartyoungmoney.com .

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The Care Industry Still Need Foreign Workers

Filed under: Uncategorized — tomcatf14986 @ 3:54 pm

Special Report By Charles Kelly Immigration Adviser and Co Author of “How 2 Come to the UK to Live Work Study or Visit”.

The Care Industry Still Needs Foreign Workers

As Home Secretary John Reid ponders over whether or not to admit thousands of Romanian and Bulgarian workers next year, we ask what the Government is doing to help the private care sector to solve continuing staff shortages.

Last week, in a reaction to mounting public anxiety over immigration, Mr Reid has effectively called for official limits on the numbers coming into Britain. He hinted that a new body could be set up to advise the government on optimum levels of immigration consistent with the country’s economic needs and social stability .

This is a major shift in policy by a government which previously welcomed immigration and talked of the “economic benefits” migrants bring to Britain.

The announcement follows news of a leaked Home Office report revealing deep concerns over the rising numbers of immigrants coming in from new EU countries in Eastern Europe.

“People recognise that others from outside this country can bring great skills here, but they also want to be assured that our services, whether it’s schools or hospitals, and indeed their own terms and conditions, will be preserved and immigration will be managed,” Reid said on a news discussion program on the BBC.

John Reid is widely expected to impose restrictions on ‘free movement of labour’ from Romania and Bulgaria, following the large migration of workers from Eastern Europe since 2004. Britain was one of only three countries to allow people from the 10 new member states to migrate.

Original estimates of 13000 new arrivals in the first year were probably exceeded in the first week and the numbers have since risen to over 600,000 prompting fears that we are being overrun. The vast majority of the new arrivals are in full time work.

In a BBC interview yesterday Home Office Minister Tony McNulty admitted that the Government had been “in the dark” when it estimated how many workers would come to the UK from the expanded EU.

Whilst the care industry may have benefited from the increased availability of labour from countries like Poland and Latvia, many employers have reported that the benefits have been short lived as they freely move from job to job. Workers from the new EU member states do not need work permits and have the same choices as the resident workforce. In other words they can also opt for an easier life and more money working for a local supermarket, commonly known as the Tesco Factor .

“Eastern European workers have not solved our staffing problems” Home Owner

Other care home owners and managers have also told me that Polish and other Eastern European workers have not solved their staffing problems. A care home owner who preferred not to be named told me that the Polish carers he recruited do not stay in the job very long.

“We put a lot of time and effort into the recruitment, training and induction process, as well as helping them get settled, only to find that as soon as they’ve got their bearings they’re off to find higher paid jobs”.

To make matters worse, the Government are constantly making life difficult for anyone trying to bring in staff from outside the EU. Even renewing a work permit has become a minefield where one wrong move can lead to disastrous consequences.

We have recently taken over an immigration case where a new care home owner applied for a work permit extension for a Senior Carer from the Philippines. The Home Office refused the application due to a mistake on the job title and will not change their decision. The applicant’s visa was about to expire and had we not rescued the situation she would have been sent home along with her husband a son.

It beggars belief that the very people this country needs to attract, skilled people willing and able to do the jobs nobody else seems to want to do, are being victimised and run out of the country.

Employers are also in for a tougher time and will soon be required to take on more responsibility for their overseas staff and face sanctions and heavy fines if things go wrong. See www.immigrationmatters.co.uk.

Other sectors, like the catering industry, are also suffering from staff shortages. However, unlike restaurants or hotels, care homes face the ultimate threat closure if they fail to meet strict staffing criteria. Dame Denise Platt, Chair of the CSCI, has warned that “staff shortages are putting patients at risk”.

The Government seems to base their immigration decisions solely on the needs of the NHS

The Government recently decided that the NHS has sufficient numbers of ‘home grown’ Nurses, and brought in sweeping changes completely ignoring the needs of the private sector.

General Nurses, (the ones most needed in Care Homes) were taken off the “official” shortage list on 14th August, despite the fact that Nurses are still in short supply in the private sector. Employers will now have to go through the resident labour test in order to obtain a work permit for an overseas nurse.

I carried out a quick search on the Job Centre Plus website today and found 2144 nursing vacancies for jobs paying up to £24000 per annum. The Nursing Times website boasts “Thousands of UK Nursing Jobs” and I dare say that local newspapers all over the UK carry dozens of Care Home’s advertisements for Nursing jobs.

There are also over 7000 vacancies for Care Assistants listed on the Job Centre site and yet the Government still refuses to acknowledge that it should be listed a shortage occupation.

Senior Carer work permits have become more difficult to obtain in recent years and visas for work permit holders are regularly refused. This Monday I attended yet another hearing at the appeals tribunal (AIT) to help fight the case of a Senior Carer wrongfully refused a visa by the British Embassy in Manila. Fortunately the judge agreed with us and allowed the appeal on the spot.

The NHS may not have a staff shortage, but the private sector still finds it difficult to recruit good quality staff locally and has no choice but to look overseas.

In my experience, the only place where you will find large numbers of highly qualified English speaking care staff, who will stay for the long run, is in countries like India and The Philippines.

Employers must be allowed to choose where best to find the staff they need to give them and their resident’s longer term stability.

For regular immigration updates see www.immigrationmatters.co.uk http://www.immigrationmatters.co.uk

If you should have any questions concerning any of the above issues or require advice on work permits, visas and other immigration matters please email Charles Kelly info@immigrationmatters.co.uk info@immigrationmatters.co.uk .

Join me at the Care Show

I will be speaking at the Care Show (NEC 25th October) on: “Are You Employing Staff Illegally?” and would look forward to meeting you on the ‘Guide2Care’ stand.

HOW 2 COME TO THE UK to Live Work Study or Visit by Charles Kelly & Cynthia Barker2005 ISBN 0-9546338-3-0.

Available from our website, leading bookstores in the UK and National Bookstore, Glorieta and Manila Area.

www.how2cometotheuk.com http://www.how2cometotheuk.com

Charles Kelly is a registered Immigration Adviser and Co Author of “How 2 Come to the UK to Live Work Study or Visit”.

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Avail Advantageous Deal with Homeowner Personal Loan

Filed under: Uncategorized — tomcatf14986 @ 3:54 pm

Homeowner personal loan can serve you in many ways if you are a homeowner. In simple terms your home will enable you to get finance on cheap rates. Now, you can fulfill all personal or business desires by availing homeowner personal loans.

In homeowner personal loans the lender asks for collateral against the amount. And more the equity in your house, more the amount you can borrow and with low rate of interest.

It offers low rate of interest as the collateral makes the lender feels secure against the non payment of the loan amount. If anyhow, the person fails to meet the payment of installment of loan in such case the lender will seize the asset in order to realize his amount. This can be also considered as one drawback of homeowner personal loan. So, before deciding to avail homeowner personal loan make sure that you can afford all the repayments of loan.

Homeowner personal loan is also known by name secured personal loan. If we compare secured and unsecured form of personal loan the secured form is more advantageous as it offers low cost and flexible repayment period. But, for availing the cheap and best homeowner personal loan deal the person is also required to scrutinize the market.

Almost all the banks, financial institutions and building society offers homeowner personal loan as per the convenience of the borrower. The person has also option to apply through online method. Online offers convenience in terms of cost, effort and time. Applying through online can save lots of money which can be further used to satisfy needs of a person.

The person with less than perfect credit score can also apply for homeowner personal loan. It is possible that they are offered with little high rate of interest as compared to the perfect credit scorer. It can also be considered as an opportunity for bad credit scorers to improve their credit score which will help them to avail loan in future with low rate of interest.

The person must always make an attempt to avail homeowner personal loan with lower annual percentage rate. Annual percentage rate can be defined as the sum of interest and cost of the loan deal.

Repayment period may vary from 5 years to 25 years. It is desirable that the person should not go for the first offer itself rather he must first compare certain offers in regard to his needs and then only should go for homeowner personal loan. The person must also clarify each cost of the loan deal.

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Training With Treats: Do It Right!

Filed under: Uncategorized — tomcatf14986 @ 10:39 am

Hey even I’m willing to learn new things if there’s a broiled lobster in it for me.

When I’m hungry that is.

If I’m not hungry, or if I’m so distracted that a lobster won’t tempt me, then I’ll blow you off to continue doing what I want, not what you want.

That’s pretty much how your dog sees the issue when you train with food. If he’s hungry at the moment, and if there’s nothing more compelling going on, food can be a great way to reinforce behaviors you teach your dog. On the other hand, if Fido isn’t food motivated, or if he’s got something “better” to do, he won’t be interested.

Nonetheless, training with food has its benefits when used as a motivator and a reward. For those dogs who just aren’t normally interested in treats, you can substitute play with a toy if that motivates them.

The first thing you have to know about using food in training is how NOT to use it. The primary rule is not to use it to stop an unwanted behavior. Instead, use it to create a new behavior you want to teach.

With those rules in mind, you won’t teach your dog to stop growling at other dogs by using food. But you may be able to teach him to sit more quickly if there’s something tasty in it for him.

Before I tell how you to deliver food treats when training, let me tell you WHY you should not use food to try and stop an unwanted behavior. The answer is because you can accidentally reinforce the very behavior you’re trying to stop.

For example, let’s say Fido growls at other dogs on his walks. If you tell him to stop growling, and distract him with a treat, what has he really learned?

Here’s what YOU’RE thinking…he stopped growling so I rewarded him for that with a cookie. He won’t growl again.

Here’s what FIDO is thinking…this is cool, I growl, then mom pops me a cookie. Let’s see if this works…let’s growl more!

Think of food as a directional reward. How, when and where you deliver it all determine whether the treat teaches your dog what you intended, or something else altogether. For example, you tell Fido to sit, and you hold a treat six inches over his head, while pushing down on his butt.

Sound about right? Wrong! By holding that treat six inches over his head, you’re really teaching Fido to sit then immediately break that position in favor of jumping up to get the cookie.

Instead, start Fido standing on a closely held leash. Show him you have a cookie, by holding it at nose level-only an inch from his sniffer– while he’s standing up. Direct his attention, and nose, slightly higher by raising the cookie only enough so that he must tend toward a sit to view it. While he’s focusing upward only a couple of inches over his nose, use your other hand to push his butt down, while your cookie hand keeps the treat only a couple of inches from his nose as it moves.

As soon as he is sitting, deliver the treat to him just slightly above nose level, and slightly toward his rear. This means that to collect the treat, Fido must actually lean back into the sit more to reach it.

Mission accomplished! Food hasn’t been just randomly delivered to your dog, leaving him wondering why he got it. Instead, the food has clearly communicated how he can get this treat even faster next time, by sitting when you ask.

Anyone getting hungry?

Marc Goldberg is a dog trainer specializing in the rehabilitation of difficult dogs and improving relationships. He is Vice President of the International Association of Canine Professionals (IACP) and Editor of SafeHands Journal. The author also educates professional dog trainers in his techniques. Visit him on the web at www.chicagodogtrainer.com http://www.chicagodogtrainer.com or www.dogtraininginchicago.com http://www.dogtraininginchicago.com .

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Drug Rehab Could Have Saved Beloved South African Singer

Filed under: Uncategorized — tomcatf14986 @ 10:39 am

Brenda Fassie, the legendary South African pop singer who sold millions of records across Africa and around the world, died in a Johannesburg hospital on May 9, 2004 after spending 13 days in a coma. The post-mortem said her final dose of cocaine was the cause of death. She was only 39 years old. MaBrrr, as she was affectionately nicknamed by her fans, had tried to resolve her severe addictions over the years at various treatment centers - in fact, more than 30 times - but, unfortunately for MaBrrr and her millions of admirers, she never found a truly successful drug rehab program.

Fassie, the youngest of nine kids, was named after Brenda Lee, the American singer. Her pianist mother let her earn money by singing for tourists in the streets. In 1981 at 16, Fassie left Cape Town to seek her fortune as a singer in Johannesburg’s Soweto district. Soweto, short for “South West Townships”, had long been under the grinding heel of South Africa’s white supremacist apartheid policy. Poverty, drugs, alcohol, prostitution, illness and crime were rampant, and drug rehab facilities as we know them today were virtually unknown. But there was art, there was music, there were night clubs to sing in and a vibrant culture was being created by Soweto’s people. Nelson Mandela lived there for years, as did Bishop Desmond Tutu and other famous black South Africans.

Five years before Fassie arrived, Soweto police opened fire on 10,000 protesting students marching peacefully from Naledi High School to Orlando Stadium. In the events that unfolded, 566 people died. The impact of the Soweto Uprising, as it became known, reverberated throughout the country and around the world. Soweto became the stage for violent state repression and the roaring social and political oven in which Fassie forged the direction of her music - by the mid-’90s, she was the unequivocal voice of black oppression. But she had also formed a drug addiction so strong that it managed to resist one treatment program after another. Without access to a real drug rehab, Fassie was unable to break the habit.

In 2001 Time magazine dubbed Fassie “The Madonna of the Townships” and indeed she was. Fassie managed to combine ground-breaking musical success with a personal accessibility and human fallibility that drew a fierce loyalty and protectiveness from fans. Her career was studded with record sales and awards, but punctuated also by periodic scandals, recurring battles with drug addiction, and lows in her musical career that saw her written off by the press.

On June 12, 2006, two years after her death, family and friends paid tribute to Fassie at the unveiling of a huge new tombstone at Cape Town’s Langa cemetery. Wreaths from former president Nelson Mandela and President Thabo Mbeki - who had both visited her in the hospital where she lay in a coma - were placed on the family grave where Fassie was buried with her mother and father. The family is planning a museum in her honor, where her music and other memorabilia will be displayed. And perhaps most significant is the planned Brenda Fassie Foundation that would financially assist young drug addicts in need of a successful drug rehab program.

Rod MacTaggart is a Florida-based freelance writer who contributes articles on health.

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Start A Home Day Care Business

Filed under: Uncategorized — tomcatf14986 @ 4:42 am

Did you know the demand for professional childcare providers would increase 12% by 2012? As more and more parents search for reliable, quality childcare, the need will continue to grow! That means career opportunity for you!

You can start a home day care business with a minimal investment. This is a great business opportunity for anybody that loves kids, and wants to turn it into a career. In addition to the minimal investment that is needed, you will also already have the space for your kids being that you will be running your business out of your home. All in all, a home day care business is one of the best opportunities to make a lot of money without having to spend tons of it up front.

If you are gong to start a home day care business you need to make sure that you are aware of every last detail. Remember, you will be taking care of other people’s children. If anything happens to them you will be responsible. So the best way to avoid this is by simply getting everything lined up from the very beginning.

The first thing that you will need to do is make sure that your house is safe enough to run a home day care business. In other words, do you have the room to house all of the children without posing a threat to their safety? You should have a designated area in your home that you can run your home day care business out of. Never try to turn your entire home into the day care. This will only make a mess, and make it much more difficult for you to keep track of everything that is going on.

Also, your home needs to be child proof. You cannot have anything that may harm the children that you are watching. This includes things such as stairs that they could fall down, or small items that they could choke on. This is why having a designated area for your home day care business is of the utmost importance.

After you have your home set up, you need to make sure that you have all of the proper certificates and insurance in order to run a business out of your home. Many people overlook this, and end up running into big problems down the line. Do not let this happen to you. Get in touch with the appropriate people in your area and ask them what you need to do in order to set up a home day care business. More than likely your local municipality will be able to give you the information that you need in order to get started.

Starting a home day care business can be very profitable, and quite fun if you love children. Just make sure that before you start your home day care business that you have all of the loose ends tied up. This will ensure your chances of success as your business grows. Remember, as a day care owner you will have a rewarding, challenging career where you’ll see the results of your caring and creative efforts every day.

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Gym Love

Filed under: Uncategorized — tomcatf14986 @ 4:40 am

The place is hot and steamy, pulsing with the beat of blaring music and gyrating bodies. You see her working it across the crowded floor, and you have to meet her. A brilliant idea: you’ll buy her a drink. But wait a second - that only works in night clubs, and you’re at a health club. So while you could send a 20 oz. Tropical Xtremo Gatorade her way, that probably won’t produce the intended result, no matter how important it is to replenish fluids during strenuous exercise. What do you do?

Gyms notoriously attract eye-catching people. There’s no greater concentration of sinewy muscles and tight, skimpy clothing anywhere… except maybe the adult thriller section of your local Blockbuster Video. Let’s face it, even the most average-looking gym-goer is fit and healthy, or at least will be in a few months. But while fitness clubs are a veritable bakery of available beefcakes and beefcakettes, they can actually be rather tricky places to meet people. Gyms are often chock full of cheesy pick-up artists with sleazy come-ons, or, on the other side, designer gear-wearing posers who walk around a whole lot and manage to lift very little.

But there has to be some way for normal people to meet other normal people at the gym, right? The simple answer is yes, but not without keeping several things in mind - especially if your idea of a good opening line is something like “Nice shoes, wanna french?”

Listen up, all you muscle-bound Casanovas out there: no matter how eager you are to begin the mating… er, dating process, you’ve got to scope out the scene. Some gyms are as flirty as all-you-can drink “body shot nite” at Club Med. Others, well, you’d probably have better luck cruising a Buddhist monastery. Look around. Are people talking… with each other… and not asking whether they can “work-in”? If that’s the case, fire up conversations at will (we’ll cover what to say shortly). But if the atmosphere is more businesslike, it’s probably best to keep minding your own. Unsolicited banter, no matter how witty, can stick out worse than a left elbow during assisted tricep dips.

Next, and most importantly: you can check someone out, just don’t freak them out. It’s one thing to sneak a peek while she’s sprawled on the stretching mat, but quite another to train your penetrating gaze on her (no matter how amazing her side crunch technique might be). Among the women I’ve spoken to, the consensus is clear. One or two quick glances, and maybe even a little smile, are flattering; prolonged staring, drooling, or high-fiving your equally lecherous friends, is not. Of course, even the strongest exhibit occasional weakness - if you absolutely can’t help it, use the gym’s mirrors for a far less detectable stare. (This technique can also give you a better view of, shall we say, the traditionally hidden parts of an alluring physique.)

You’ve spotted someone on the lat machine, you’ve used the mirror, and you like what you see. You’re ready to make your move, right? Hold on there, tough guy. The next step is recognizing her receptiveness. Just as exercise is a social experience, it can also be solitary and serious. Some people just want to get in and get out as quickly as possible. This is especially true at gyms where members squeeze workouts into hectic appointment schedules, or even before the workday begins. People probably aren’t looking for romance in the midst of the daily grind, and while your hormones might be awake at 6:00 a.m., it’s unlikely that someone who gets up while it’s still dark wants to meet anyone, aside from the coffee stand guy.

Same can be said of those who hit the gym after work - chances are they just want to exercise, go home, and eat a salad. If some meathead wearing zebra-print Zubaz pants impedes that progress, do you think he’ll get that number (the real one)? She might have caught your eye, but you can’t assume the feeling is mutual unless she sees you and smiles back. Even then, wait an extra minute, just to make sure she’s not there with her championship kick-boxer boyfriend, who’d be more than happy to use your face as a leather focus mitt.

When it comes to opening lines, we all have our stand-bys. But at the gym, inspired pick-ups like “Sagittarius, right?,” “I’m on the football team,” and “please don’t call the cops” might not work as well. True, women’s reactions vary, depending largely on delivery, making it tough to say what to say. But there are definitely techniques to avoid. Worst offender? The old “let me show you how to do that” maneuver. We’ve all seen this move in action, and might even be guilty of trying it (listen up, personal trainers). There’s nothing wrong with correcting someone’s form - unless it’s used as a pretext to ogle her body at close range, or, worse, place an “instructive” hand on it.

Most men don’t mind a stranger’s touch (and probably fantasize about it), but women like it about as much as filthy bathrooms, back hair, and spitting contests. Here’s something else they hate: guys who comment on how stretchy they are. Yes, women are flexible, and flexibility is awesome - just ask Emoke Ritter, world-famous Hungarian contortionist (you’ve never heard of her?). Women understand they can bend in ways that stir the male imagination - spare yourself the embarrassment of mentioning it.

The last thing a woman wants to hear from a stranger, unless you’re Leonardo DiCaprio, is “boy are you flexible.” Same goes for “great muscle tone,” “killer pecs,” or “nice ass.” Keep the focus off her body, at least out loud. Instead, comment on the book she’s reading or the music she’s listening to. Or simply ask what her name is. Talk a little. Work out a little. Established a rapport first, then you can show her the right way to do a shoulder press. Better yet, let her show you.

Top 5 Least Effective Gym PIck-Up Lines

1) Is that a Detour bar in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?

2) Nice Glutes.

3) I’d love to ask you out for a drink, but I’m on Atkins.

4) You know, my favorite exercise is pushups. They’re best done with 2 people, care to join in?

5) Hi, my name is Richard Simmons.

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June 29, 2008

Disarming the Drag-Away Girl

Filed under: Uncategorized — tomcatf14986 @ 11:10 pm

From Pickupmastery.com:

The arrogance is appalling. How could this happen to you? Why now??

You’re with your friends at the club, and suddenly a total bombshell of a woman catches your eye. Maybe it’s the silkiness of her hair, or her shimmering makeup, but you know she’s the one for you … for tonight, at least. With quiet courage, you begin your path towards her.

Oops…. Nature calls. Better take a trip to the bathroom first…

5 unnecessary minutes later, you are back and ready to go. You walk up and … well the bar’s right there, might as well get another beer.

3 more even more unnecessary minutes later, you gulp down some of that liquid courage, tap her on the shoulder, and say “Hi.”

For some reason, she opens right up. She’s laughing at everything you say and the conversation is flowing effortlessly. You wish you had a recorder wired to you, because tonight you are clearly at your wittiest. She’s even beginning to touch your chest when you say something she likes, and doesn’t mind you putting your hand on her shoulder or side as you get to know her. All of a sudden, a third party suddenly enters your space.

“BECKY!!! We need to go dance!”

Gone.

You didn’t even see it coming. She didn’t see it coming. Yet within seconds, she is off dancing to “Hips don’t lie” as you stand there alone with your beer, wondering where your potential girlfriend went.

This is called the “drag-away girl.” There’s one in every girl’s social circle. Her job is so important, that when she has the flu, or is out of town, all of her friends fall into the catastrophes of setting dates, getting make-outs, or having one night stands. How crucial her assignment is.

Ok, so it’s not that formal, but in order to diffuse the drag-a-way girl’s powers, you need to understand why she creates all this madness in the first place.

Women want sex. They love sex; probably more than we do. Left to their own devices, they’d probably be having sex all the time. Who wouldn’t be tempted, with attractive people hitting on them left and right?

The problem is that there are social and personal ramifications for women who are promiscuous. They are called “sluts,” and can feel “dirty,” afterwards. Because of this, girlfriends vow to limit each others’ sexual encounters as much as possible. In fact, women will often explicitly ask each other to cockblock for them and make sure they don’t give their numbers out or go home with a guy. This is taken so far that when a girl does actually decide she wants to get laid, she’ll have to go out of her way to tell her friends not to block, just so she can act how she normally would without societal restrictions.

Of course, there are other reasons why girls drag their friends away from potential suitors. One reason could be that she is simply jealous and hating on her friend for getting hit on all the time. If a girl is overweight or unattractive in general, this is probably the main reason.

How do we solve this? The solution is simple.

As soon as the friend comes, engage her and bring her into the conversation. This will bring her into the new world you two share, instead of snapping your lady back into the other world she shares with her girlfriend. The three of you will be talking about how cool your trip to Maui was, instead of their dinner plans on their big night out next week - without you, of course. You need to stay prominent in your honey’s universe, and for that moment, lower her friend from a focal point to just a guest in the vibe that you two share.

If you do this early enough, and hold a strong frame, her friend will notice that you two are getting along, and just might respect that. What will more likely happen, though, is that she’ll still try to make an attempt to drag her friend away by saying “We’re going to go dance,” but it will be noticeably weaker. She’ll speak more softly, and her voice may quiver. Because her friend has a weaker frame than you, you will win. She just won’t sound as cool as you, and will be turned down. Your girl will just reply “I’m good,” and nod for her to go away. You may not even be able to tell that the drag-away girl has lost her confidence in her control of her friend, but it’s there if you look for it.

Now sometimes you won’t be able to the engage the friend before she tries to pull your object of interest away. She might just show up and say “We gotta go dance…now!” before you can even make eye contact with her. This situation is actually a lot easier than you would expect. Pat the drag-a-way girl on the shoulder and say, “You’re cool, you’re cool,” then turn to face your girl and resume conversation. The friend will be confused and will lose power as she stands there as you two talk. Whoever is standing on the edge, boxed out, looks less and less cool with each passing second.

She will try to reinitiate and move your lady away. Do the same thing again: pat her on the shoulder and quickly say, “You’re cool, you’re cool.” Turn your body completely to face your girl again and resume conversation. It’s as easy as shampooing your hair: Wash, rinse, repeat. You can do this over and over again until the friend just leaves; and believe me, she will leave.

In short, don’t get too reactive when an obstacle like the drag-away girl crosses your path. Be friendly if you can; and if not, blow her out of the interaction. It’s actually deceptively simple dealing with female cockblocks, once you get the hang of it. Above all, have a good time with it, and that girl will be yours.

Dan Tolumbro is a dating advice coach for men at: www.pickupmastery.com http://www.pickupmastery.com .

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Motorcycle Trailer Rentals

Filed under: Uncategorized — tomcatf14986 @ 11:08 pm

Suddenly you find yourself in a position where you need to transport your motorcycle across the country. You are moving and there is no way you are going to leave something so dear to your heart behind. Not to worry - motorcycle trailer rentals are the perfect answer for you.

Whether you have to move across the country or you are planning a vacation and want to take your bike with you. Whether you are moving that vintage motorcycle project or heading to the track for the next motocross race. A trailer rental can solve all your transportation dilemmas.

So why rent?

1. Convenience

Pick the trailer up when you need it and drop it when you are done. Many of the rental agencies even offer one way trips with an additional fee.

2. Affordable

No worrying about spending a substantial amount to buy a trailer that you’ll only use once or twice. And then there’s the insurance, maintenance, and all the other costs associated with owning something. Pay your rental fee, turn it back in, and your obligation ends.

3. Time

In less than 15 minutes you can have booked your trailer for the dates you need. Online has certainly added a degree of convenience to this process. Then all you need to do is show up and pick it up.

4. Quality

You can rent a top of the line trailer that offers your motorcycle the best protection and it will cost you pennies per mile. Much better than having to pay to buy the trailer.

If you are going to rent a motorcycle trailer you are going to have to install the correct type of hitch. Generally a ball hitch is what is needed. In fact most pickups come with the right type of hitch already in place.

But wait! There are other options to trailer rentals. One you may not have even considered and they too have some great benefits especially if you want to more your motorcycle quickly and safely. It’s a great option for that custom motorcycle or that bike you’ve spent years rebuilding and don’t want to risk towing. Ship it. Yes that’s right hire one of the many companies that specialize in shipping motorcycles.

There are plenty of reasons why you might consider this option over renting.

1. Convenience - no hauling, not loading, just call the shipper, he’ll pick it up and meet you at the destination.

2. Time - If you need your bike to arrive when you do time isn’t a problem. You shipper can schedule your motorcycles arrival to coincide with your arrival.

3. Safety - An experienced shipper knows how to handle your bike and will also offer specialized insurance to give you peace of mind for that rare occasion.

4. Protection - Many of the trailers you rent are uncovered leaving your bike exposed to all the elements including weather, dust, and flying debris. With a shipping company that’s never a problem. You motorcycle will be protected during its entire journey.

Whether you decide motorcycle trailer rentals are worth considering or you feel more comfortable with a shipper is entirely up to you. What is really important is that you are comfortable with how your motorcycle is going to be transported.

Brent Martorella has been a car salesman for more than 30 years and has recommended and helped his clients to finding the right automobiles and trailers for their needs. For more information on buying the right trailer for you and your family go to www.trail-r.com http://www.trail-r.com

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FTP Hosting for Beginners lesson 101

Filed under: Uncategorized — tomcatf14986 @ 5:44 pm

Have you ever realized why the Internet is so popular? It is because the Internet provides us with easy and fast access to all types of information and knowledge. It is the perfect platform to share information, gain knowledge, send messages, listen to music, and view graphics.

However, if you face problems in transferring this information, then the very purpose of using the Internet will fail. This is where you need the help of FTP Hosting service.

The FTP Hosting service helps you to transfer files over the Internet irrespective of the length and size of the files. The files to be transferred using FTP Hosting service can come in the form of web pages, media files, image files or text files.

Difference between Transferring Files via Emails and FTP Hosting Service

FTP Hosting service makes use of a safe and sound online file storage system. It is in this storage system that the FTP Hosting service allows you to upload all the files, irrespective of their type and size. Once you have finished uploading all the desired files, the recipient of the respective files can easily download them according to their preferred time.

You may feel that even the email can serve this purpose of transferring files. But, there are size restrictions in an email, and the email services fail to transfer large files. You may face a situation where you need to transfer files of size over 100MB - 300MB. This is when you require the help of FTP Hosting service. Moreover, emails allow you to send files from one person to another. FTP Hosting allows you to store the files in an online secured storage system from where the recipients can easily download their respective files.

How Secured is FTP Hosting?

You will be considered a good candidate for FTP Hosting service if you share large files with a number of vendors and clients. The FTP Hosting service provides you with multiple accounts, with the help of which you can easily upload and download files to and from your vendors and clients. Since this whole process involves handling a number of accounts, FTP Hosting service will also provide you with secured passwords for all the individual accounts, thus preventing one client from viewing files for other clients.

FTP Hosting service is mainly used in various organizations and firms including designer, medical practice, law, art, transcription, engineering firms and other organizations that require secure transfer of heavy files.

FTP Server & FTP Client

FTP in “FTP Hosting” stands for File Transfer Protocol. FTP is one of the fastest and the most effective ways of transferring large files over the Internet. In order to perform FTP Hosting, you will require two types of computers - FTP Server and FTP Client.

FTP Server - This computer runs the FTP server software. It keeps track of requests by the Client computers for connecting to a file that is uploaded on the online storage system.

FTP Client - This computer runs the FTP client software. It instigates connection to the FTP server. Once the connection is established, the client can download and upload files to and from the server, edit, delete or rename files on the server.

FTP Software

To make sure that the two computers required for FTP Hosting, FTP Server and FTP Client, are working effectively, you will require FTP Software. The software runs on the Server and Client computers and handles the smooth transferring of the files. Almost all the FTP Hosting software are easy to use. All you need to do is - install the application, fill in details of site address, name and related information, and just connect. Once connection has been restored, you can easily upload files from your PC to the site and download the files from the site to the local drive of your computer.

A number of FTP Hosting software are available - both for server and client programs. Some of them are:

WS FTP - as file transfer client software, it is the most popular. With the help of this secure software, you can quickly and easily manage all the digital information. It helps to compress files into .zip format during file transfer. It guarantees security of data with the help of 256-bit Advanced Encryption Standard (AES) keys and SSL transfers.

FTP Explorer - this allows you to resume file download even after an interruption. This FTP client software is modeled after Windows Explorer interface.

Cute FTP - this is one of the widely used shareware FTP programs. This FTP Client software is developed by GlobalSCAPE. Their enhanced tools help them to manage complex data.

FTP Hosting costs only a fraction of the cost that you pay for sending files via UPS, Fed-X and various postal services. Moreover, the risk of damage and delay and the associated delivery costs are not there. Usually, you will need to pay only $3.50 every week. However, if you go for a monthly payment, you only need to pay $25.00 every month.
Mike Jewson is a Network Engineer with InstantFTPsites.com . You can learn more about FTP Hosting services online at www.InstantFTPsites.com http://www.InstantFTPsites.com

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